Let me ask you something, do you think Jeff Bezos the founder of Amazon ever thinks to himself "Wow that dude thinks he's better than anyone else"? Do you think, Pitt, Einstein, Alexander the Great, high achievers in general ever stop to think that about someone?
Let me tell you the truth behind these two concepts, Perception from the viewer. When you hear this words coming from someone, you can automatically spot a small trace of an inferiority complex, this is where you can truly spot jealousy. No high performance human thinks this, their vision and their self-esteem is so great, that for them anything that isn't contributing to them building their empire simply doesn't exist.
This question has been asked to the up and coming and the greats, and on a personal level it bothers the fuck out of me. You wanna know why? It's a distractor, from their path. In your personal life, I truly don't give a fuck what you use. My only concern for you is what you build and to create a path worthy of a legacy. People hate on Mayweather for being the cocky mf he is, to be honest. I find it hilarious. Talk shit about Mayweather when you're a Tyson, a Sugar Ray. People who have done what he has. Even so they don't do it. You know what that's called self-esteem. They are confident in themselves enough to pass the torch.
You know why I find Mayweather hilarious? Because he earned the right to be a cocky mf. Built an empire, was made into a household name & is arguably one of the best, if not the best pure defensive boxer up until this point in time. Yes, you might bring the argument of Roy Jones Jr. not getting a single punch landed on him for a full round & my counterargument to that would be, fuck you write your own article.
Never the less even Roy Respects Mayweather, want to know what that's called? BDE.
To be grounded & secure in the belief of who you are.
(Now if you this and you used to be a hater on any particular subject or field. I'm going to try to pull you out of the shit-zone you're mind used to be in. Plus I'm proud of you for stepping out of someone's shadow & starting your own journey.
- First; all success must be celebrated, no excuse.
- Second; the difference between hate and speaking your mind, will always be your intentions.
- Third; Grow some balls/ovaries and tell them what you think to their face.
- Fourth; Build your own thing, do your own thing. If you have time to talk shit and you're not getting paid to do so. You have too much free time on your hands.)
(On a side note, if you feel your on the other side of this and wanna know how to deal with opinions, check out the article (The truth behind opinions) a work of art.)
That is the true message, it doesn't matter. What matters is what is achieved from this two. As a person who I'm not completely fond of one said " I rather have an arrogant narcissistic surgeon, than a humble mediocre one."
As a disclaimer: This is not a asshole hallway pass, In your overall life how much of a gentleman you are, how you treat people & how much you give, is in direct correlation to how big your dick is. Facts.
My overall goal is the following, change your perspective & praise success in any way shape or form.
Remember earn the right to be a cocky mf.
Never the less some point you're gonna have to deal with clients or a respective audience whose opinions actually matter.
At that point, the rule I'm gonna install in your brain is simple. The same rule that my old man always taught me. For the most part, "Treat everyone with dignity and respect". Simple, right? No rocket science.
Now that I have installed in your beautiful brain, a great life lesson. Go and achieve.
Big Love.
- A
* If by any means you recognize that you still feel any sense of insecurity, that results in jealousy, envy & what not;
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