Responsability = Power

How many times have you said "It's not my fault". I bet you have said it, your friends, family, basically every person in existence has said it. You can bet your ass I have said it. But do you know how detrimental that phrase is to ones self-esteem?! By removing the influence you have over the circumstances in your life. We are giving our power away freely. Because it's an easy cop out, but easy does not build Alexander the greats nor Chuck Lidells. Let's get our power back, ok champs? First. As said in the movie The godfather by the iconic Don Vito Corleone; “Women and children can afford to be careless but not men.” In my personal opinion. No one can afford to be careless. But never the less, Corleone was right Men in particular can not afford to be careless nor leave their luck to chance. I’m not telling you, to have every aspect of your life in order but... 

The main aspects or the principal objectives are important. There are some variables you just can’t control. But! The things you do have control over, often times do have influence over the variables you can’t. If I lost you for a second let me explain;

You can’t directly control your heartbeat. I mean at least that I know off, you can’t control your heartbeat with your mind. But what you can do is do some cardio, run, jump, kick, etc.. That can influence your heartbeat.

So as a man or person what can you control?

• your work ethic

• your fitness

• your ambitions

• the company you keep

• your values/ standards

And this are some examples, just to name a few. Now that we established some building blocks or the foundation of the control points in your life. We can start working on them individually.

These are 5 points you have direct control over. Take full responsability of these points and believe me you will have more power and more control over your life than you ever had before. Most certainly more power than any other person can have over you. 

You have a clear vision now, go get it.

Big Love -A.